Thunder in the Mountains, Day 1

Thunder in the Mountains 2012 Day 1 Last night and today, we built the dungeon. I have to commend the transport guys. They must have gotten equipment from all over the city. It took us all night and some of today to get it all built, but it’s done now. I browsed the vendor fair […]

My relationship type

My relationship type I’m often asked what kind of relationship type I have with my submissives/dominants. Basically, I do what is called a fluid contract and an open relationship. My current girlfriend (who also subs to me and doms me) and I are both allowed to have multiple play partners. However, whenever fluids are involved […]

Toys I would purchase right now if money was no object (ONGOING POST)

These are just a few items I’d love to acquire one day. I plan on updating this list occasionally to reflect my current desires or to remove items I have already purchased. When I update it, I will change the date of posting so it rises to the top. Note: I am not affiliated with any of […]

Children, sex and BDSM

Wrote this for a class and it seems like a good fit for this web site. Despite accusations from the opposition, children are often harmed more by masking sexuality rather than overtly explaining it. In our vain attempt to “protect our children” we often end up doing more harm; reacting rather than taking a pro-active […]

Traveling with toys

While not all of us usually have this issue, occasionally, there will be a party or event occurring that is too good to pass up but it isn’t local. Assuming the party is at least domestic, travel shouldn’t be an issue.

A fun night

Last night, at the Denver Sanctuary, I got to do a scene that I have been dreaming about for quite a while. I got to tie up two girls side by side and use two Hitachi magic wands and give orgasms simultaneously. I used a big table and tied each of their outer arms and […]

BDSM on a budget

BDSM, like any hobby, can get expensive. In our constant search for new experiences, there are a wide variety of providers that are ready and willing to take our money in exchange for prebuilt items (floggers, vibrators etc). However, like any hobby there are cost saving ways to keep some of your money, assuming you […]

So I am brand new to the scene. What should I do? What is expected of me?

As with any activity in life, we always have apprehensions about our first time doing anything BDSM is no exception. It can be a little scary at first figuring out where to go and what to do. We always worry about looking like a newbie, even if we are. Therefore, here are my seven tips […]

Safety while looking for partners

Note: This article is for people who are looking for relationships, not one time play partners (not that there is anything wrong with that 🙂 ) Often times, I am asked how people go about finding partners. This admittedly is a topic near and dear to my heart. In the past, like everyone else in […]

Locked lovers

Locked Lovers For my first post, I thought I would call attention to an interesting company I found a while back. Let me state for the record that I am not affiliated with this company in any way.   http://lockedlovers.com/products.html   The make a kind of modular bondage system where you can keep buying parts […]