So I am brand new to the scene. What should I do? What is expected of me?

As with any activity in life, we always have apprehensions about our first time doing anything BDSM is no exception. It can be a little scary at first figuring out where to go and what to do. We always worry about looking like a newbie, even if we are. Therefore, here are my seven tips for newbies

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Safety while looking for partners

Note: This article is for people who are looking for relationships, not one time play partners (not that there is anything wrong with that 🙂 )

Often times, I am asked how people go about finding partners. This admittedly is a topic near and dear to my heart. In the past, like everyone else in the world, I’ve had to find a play partner and/or girlfriend. I hope that others can gleam from my experience.

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Locked lovers

Locked Lovers

For my first post, I thought I would call attention to an interesting company I found a while back. Let me state for the record that I am not affiliated with this company in any way.


The make a kind of modular bondage system where you can keep buying parts to extend what it can do. Very interesting. I contacted them about prices and got the following back:

Thank you for your inquiry. Our pricing and online purchasing options are expected to go online in this quarter of 2012. We appreciate your patience. Purchasing our systems is being held until our full product launch.

Dennis Carey
LockedLovers, LLC
Hopefully the prices are reasonable, but knowing what BDSM equipment can cost, it could be very high or very low. But come on, it’s like legos for kinky folk!
Locked lovers