So I am brand new to the scene. What should I do? What is expected of me?

As with any activity in life, we always have apprehensions about our first time doing anything BDSM is no exception. It can be a little scary at first figuring out where to go and what to do. We always worry about looking like a newbie, even if we are. Therefore, here are my seven tips […]

Safety while looking for partners

Note: This article is for people who are looking for relationships, not one time play partners (not that there is anything wrong with that 🙂 ) Often times, I am asked how people go about finding partners. This admittedly is a topic near and dear to my heart. In the past, like everyone else in […]

Locked lovers

Locked Lovers For my first post, I thought I would call attention to an interesting company I found a while back. Let me state for the record that I am not affiliated with this company in any way.   http://lockedlovers.com/products.html   The make a kind of modular bondage system where you can keep buying parts […]