Am I too kind for kink?
Kink is a very big part of my life. I’ve never denied this. While I wouldn’t say it occupies a large portion of my day (that would be my job), it does play a huge role in my relationships. I want it in my life. I volunteer when I can and even organize parties for others where I often am too busy to even think about playing. I’m not complaining mind you, just stating a fact.
Three Days of Kink
This weekend (just so you know I have an abnormal work schedule, I get Thurs, Fri and Sat off) was interesting. We had three days of kink events, one on each night.
Thursday night was TNG. We had a very large turnout (76 people) and it made for an exciting evening. Speaking from a DM perspective, I saw a wide range of play occurring. In addition, I’d like to say thanks to the people that did a scene with me. I got to be sounded for my very first time (well, second, but first time where it was the focus of the scene). The experience was interesting. It’s rather hard to describe. I was indeed light headed afterward though.
Friday night was TNG at the Rack room. Nothing wrong with this party. It seemed to be light attendance but that made for a more laid back atmosphere. I admittedly ran the door so I didn’t get to see much, but it was still a good evening.
Saturday was taste of kink. This is where we introduce new people to kinks in small 5 minute sessions. I was honored to be the first scene ever of some people. I did sensation play for the night and had a wide variety of “canvases” on which to play. I enjoyed all of them. Thanks again to everyone who let me run all my various sensation toys over them. I hope you had as much fun as I did.
Now it’s Sunday, so back to work. But what a weekend! Three days of kink!
Well, Thunder 2014 has come and gone. I figure it’s time for a recap of the events that transpired. I didn’t get on the volunteer squad this year which is probably good due to some family complications. Everyone is fine now, but it made attending Thunder a challenge. However, I do thank my family for working with me and I managed to attend Friday evening, all day Saturday and a small part of Sunday.
Thunder 2014 Countdown:
It is the Thunder season. It is time for the Thunder 2014 Countdown. You can look at the side bar for the actual countdown but I’m getting excited. They posted the schedule for the classes. There is ONE class I MIGHT attend, but I’m more looking forward to dungeon time. My partner wants us to pre plan our scenes. Admittedly, I’m not a big fan of this because it disarms me from doing a surprise scene that is silly as all get out.
Still, I’ll do it simply to play at Thunder. I won’t go into last year, but needless to say I was disappointed. Hopefully the same thing doesn’t happen this year. I plan on playing, and it will be epic.
Hope to see some of you there! It should be fun. Friday I’ll be at the registration table (and possibly Saturday) so I may be checking some of you in if you do attend. This year, we are also doing a TNG meetup for anyone in the organization. We’d love to see fellow TNGers attend and see how many of you there are! Sometimes, with the sheer number of people, you just can’t grasp how many of them are in a particular group. The dungeon does make the event seem lightly attended simply because there is so much room.
I hope to see all of you at the event. If you do happen to see me (except of course if I am playing) feel free to say hi and, if I don’t know you personally, let me know that you know me through my blog or social media presence. I’d love to meet my readers.
If you are interested in the event, be sure to pre-register to get cheaper tickets. Let’s start the Thunder 2014 Countdown!
Taste of Kink 2014
Last Saturday I had the honor of being one of the tasting stations at the Denver Sanctuary Taste of Kink 2014 party. It was a lot of fun to shock person after person with electricity. My core heated up a bit much, but I think it will be OK.
Thank-you to everyone that, albeit the fact that they wanted to be shocked, let me shock them.
I hope to see you all back at the Sanctuary or any kink event in the future. Hopefully, I helped you find out if you liked electrical play or hated it with a passion, or even if you are undecided. Feel free to friend me if you have any questions or need additional assistance.
Forced Orgasms Presentation 2013
Firstly, thanks to all who came to Forced Orgasms 2013 presentation. I had fun albeit a tiny bit sad that I didn’t have a demo person for it. It was unfortunate that she had to cancel at the last minute. I would have asked for a volunteer from the audience but I would have wanted to negotiate with them beforehand and there just wasn’t that kind of time. I also debated about using it after the scene was over, however I didn’t feel like a full scene. However I felt that it went well overall.
However, as a result, they want me back so I will be teaching at scales again. Not quite sure when this will be, but I will keep you all informed.
In other news, I will be teaching it again locally in Fort Collins on April 21st 2013. For that night I will have a demo person so come out and see it work.
It’s good to have friends! Last night we had a rare treat. A dungeon all to ourselves. It was loads of fun. Admittedly, my role last night was one of being a mentor and making sure my protege was not being abused by a new person, it was still a fun experience to see a dungeon that I had never seen before and be there with no one else. Actually, it gave me a rare opportunity to organize my toy bags. However, my protege got to try needles, blood and choking all in one night. Blood I just worry about so I don’t do it. Needles, well…. I don’t know how. I could probably do them to others but not to myself. Maybe I’ll try them. Who knows? Choking just doesn’t appeal to me.
Still, I look forward to many more parties in this space when it is a bit more populated. It should be a fun time. Actually we have a plan to attend a party there later this month, so that should be fun.
So I played with Heather_Daisy again, this time at Gateway night at the Denver Sanctuary. Admittedly it was a great deal of fun. We had this fun pre-scene game where we went to Dave and Busters (a video arcade) and played 2 player games. Before each we made bets. In the end, final score was 6 to 2 in my favor. Perhaps I should have mentioned (though I figured it would be obvious) that I am a bit of a gamer. I also used to work in a video arcade and let’s just say I was experienced in the art of game playing. Perhaps I should have not tried so hard on some but my competitive nature got the best of me. Regardless, it was quite fun and I would love to do it again, preferably with her winning a bit more.
It is nights like that though that I wish I lived closer to Denver. That hour drive is killer, especially if it is a late night. Sure I could stay with friends in lieu of driving, but I hate to impose on people, even if they would without a moments hesitation.
Cake night play session w/ heather_daisy
Well, cake night is over. It was a night of many firsts for many people. The first time I played with heather_daisy. The first time my protégé ever topped. The first time I topped with a true switch. It was very much an enjoyable experience. Often times, the people I top lean one way or another and so it is sometimes one sided. Heather_daisy was truly a switch.
Anyways, as I mentioned we mentored my protégé in the ways of topping. She seems to have enjoyed it thoroughly (if the knife wounds across my belly are any indication). It was my first time masturbating for an audience and it was a bit odd but nothing I objected to.
Then the revenge; oh how sweet! I demoed a second form of topping and I think everyone had a good time. My only complaint on the night is that we couldn’t get a table, but we made due with what we had. Also, while I don’t regret it, having to teach slows things down. Hopefully my protégé is more confident next time and we can focus on play. I think she will be.
What is even more exciting is that heather_daisy wants to play again, hopefully in either a less crowded setting or my personal hope somewhere private. However, that will come in time. Heather_daisy and I are currently attempting to figure out when and where the next one will be.
- Switch fun, finally.
- Left a mark on her inner thigh by accident w/o thinking
- Hesitated to kiss to avoid crossing the line.